I know some people hate that saying. Yet, the more I ponder it, the more I agree with it.
Take parenting teens for instance; that's something that IS what it IS and I am being made aware every day just how little control I have over this thing called adolescence.
When my kids were little I just knew that I was doing things that would shape their future and make them charming, disciplined, mature and responsible. They were supposed to skip straight from being children to being young adults. I was expecting it - ergo it would happen. And you know what they've gone and done? They've become adolescents anyway.
Don't take that to mean that I'm saying they're giving me trouble. They're not. It's just different. It just...Is what it IS.
Fortunately the good Lord has given me the ability to recall my late teens vividly. I remember my snotty attitude when tragedy had befallen (you know...when I lost my walkman or something earth-shattering like that) or the speed at which the tears would stream down my face over whether or not to wear the red tee with green cords (the answer there is NO, by the way).
Sigh...
My kids are amazing. They're growing up well. They're not perfect. They're not mini-adults. They're making lots and lots of mistakes and they're learning huge lessons from them and I'm trying to keep my GINORMOUS mouth shut. But, still. It is what it is. I'm finally learning that I don't have as much control as I thought I did (this is a good thing, too).